Reasons why you aren't doing what you said you would do
In this blog we will give you three reasons why you are not doing what you say you would do.
These reasons can be summarize in one phrase called Defensive Failure.
Defensive failure
is the phenomenon where you tell yourself this is the reason why you can’t do something after you tried it and fail. it takes place in three stages they are as follows
- first reason if your believe is at the core of success is talent and genetics then your mistakes will matter a lot and you won’t keep up, but if you shift to the mindset that success is achieved with effort and develop the growth mindset then your failures won’t matter you will see them as an opportunity to grow, thats when you are on the road to getting there.
- second reason you think people like you don’t do things like this. this boils down to your personality acquired from family, society, mates etc.
- third reason is secretly you don’t wanna do it cause you value them for the wrong reasons. Why is important. don’t think that getting your mindset in tact will get you your success. thats not how it works what to do it to trade this cycle of defensive failure mindset for action driven inside filled productive failure. why you keep making progress.